7 Lovemaking Mistakes That Couples Make and How To Avoid Them

Did you know that people who try to spice up their lovemaking, often make their experiences LESS fulfilling?
It’s true.
Over the years, I've seen couples make the same mistakes over and over again, when trying to improve their
love lives, and I'd like to teach you how to overcome and avoid these problems.
Here are the 7 lovemaking mistakes. Are you making them?
Mistake #1: Feeling scared or embarrassed to talk about trying new things
Have you ever had an idea to spice up your lovemaking but were afraid of what your partner may think?
Believe it or not, in 90% of cases, your partner would LOVE to try something
new, too, but they're just as uncomfortable or embarrassed about bringing it
up as you are.
And you don't need to introduce whips, chains or a third person. That's nonsense! There are hundreds of ways
to bring variety to your passionate play that aren't crude or dangerous and
that your partner is sure to be comfortable with.
Mistake #2: Trying to convince the partner to make love
If your lover is tired or not in the mood for sex, trying to convince or persuade them to have sex
almost NEVER works. On the other hand, when a person is sexually aroused, their
body releases the chemical 'adrenaline' into the bloodstream. This chemical
is what gives you the energy to make love. So here's how to arouse them the
right way. Yes, even if they're tired.
Ladies: Want to get him in the mood? Give him fellatio or manually stroke him between 9 –
10 in the morning. This is when his testosterone levels are highest for the
day. For better results, also wear something sexy or nothing at all. He'll like
that.
Lads: Deep passionate kisses are one of the biggest 'turn-ons' for women. Looking
in her eyes and touching her face while kissing her can really increase arousal,
too. And give some attention to her neck––it will drive her wild.
But don't rush this! Spend quality time building up her arousal with your sensual
kisses.
Mistake #3: Neglecting foreplay to enjoy intercourse sooner
People in a relationship (especially men) tend to neglect foreplay so they can begin to enjoy intercourse
sooner, but did you know that foreplay is actually said to intensify orgasms?

That's right. If you kiss, caress and touch longer, you can make your lovemaking even more satisfying.
So SLOW DOWN. Take your time. If you want to make it even better, tease your
partner in a playful way. (This works like crazy.)
If you find something that they really enjoy, stop doing it, move back, and then do it again later. The
more you pull back and push forward, the more they'll want it. And the more
intense their experience will be. There are many games you can play to heighten
this anticipation, too.
Mistake #4: Using toys or porn to make your lovemaking better
When sex hits a rough patch, many couples (men especially) think that a video, some plastic or vibrating
thingy will instantly takes things through the roof.
Wrong!… While toys can certainly have their place in your lovemaking repertoire, relying on them
can be extremely dangerous. These outside sources of pleasure can quickly make
lovemaking even less fulfilling.
Why? Because you don't want your partner to end up looking forward to their plastic toy for pleasure
more than they look forward to pleasure with you, do you? Couples need to first
fully discover how to please all their spouses' body parts before introducing
other elements. Use them as a spice, not the main course.
Mistake #5: Trying to make the woman orgasm ONLY from intercourse
Men often feel "unmanly" if they can't satisfy their woman from intercourse. But what they need to understand
is that a large number of women can't achieve orgasm through normal lovemaking.

Just knowing this takes the pressure off men completely. Now there's no need
to get upset when their women don’t reach orgasm. Instead, men should
master the art of cunnilingus (going down on a woman).
Mistake #6: Trying to “finish” at the same time
Simultaneous orgasms are quite overrated. Instead of aiming for one orgasm that you share together, focus
completely on the woman’s needs first. Hold off from the positions you
find most enjoyable and instead make love in ways that are most pleasurable
for your lady, until she is completely satisfied. That way you have a much greater
chance of both climaxing.
Mistake #7: Sticking to a “set routine” too often
You know the drill. You take your clothes off, insert part A into part B, and, within a few minutes,
the routine is over. Sound familiar?
No matter how fantastic lovemaking can be, there’s no denying it can get boring over the years.
And the reason is because lovemaking in its basic act is always the same. But
the danger is letting it get “too routine,” which can begin to affect
your relationship.
The BEST WAY to protect your love life and precious connection with your partner is to have lots of
new lovemaking ideas ready at your disposal.
That's the secret.
In fact, when you have an abundance of NEW tips and techniques ready, you’ll enjoy more hot,
steamy and passionate lovemaking, discover newfound enthusiasm to make love
and even make love more often.
About the Author:
Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of 500 Lovemaking Tips, a book full of ways to spice up your
lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and intimacy to your experience. To
read more, visit: 500 Hot Sex Tips

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A Red Marble

A Red Marble

During the waning years of the depression in a small southeastern
Idaho community, I used to stop by Mr. Miller's roadside stand for
farm fresh produce as the season made it available. Food and money
were still extremely scarce and bartering was used, extensively.

One particular day Mr. Miller was bagging some early potatoes for
me. I noticed a small boy, delicate of bone and feature, ragged
but clean, hungrily apprising a basket of freshly picked green
peas. I paid for my potatoes but was also drawn to the display of
fresh green peas.

I am a pushover for creamed peas and new potatoes. Pondering the
peas, I couldn't help overhearing the conversation between Mr.
Miller and the ragged boy next to me.

"Hello Barry, how are you today?"

"Hello Mr. Miller, Fine, thank you. Just admiring those peas...
sure look good."

"They are good, Barry. How's your Mother?"

"Fine. Getting stronger all the time."

"Good. Anything I can help you with?"

"No, Sir. Just admiring those peas."

"Would you like to take some home?"

"No, Sir. I don't have anything to pay for them with."

"Well, what have you to trade me for some of those peas?"

"All I have is my prize marble here."

"Is that right? Let me see it."

"Here it is. She's a dandy."

"I can see that. Hmmmm, only thing is this one is blue and I sort
of go for red. Do you have a red one like this at home?"

"Not exactly...but, almost."

"Tell you what. Take this sack of peas home with you and next trip
this way let me look at that red marble."

"Sure will. Thanks, Mr. Miller."

Mrs. Miller, who had been standing nearby, came over to help me.
With a smile she said: "There are two other boys like him in our
community, all three are in very poor circumstances. Jim just
loves to bargain with them for peas, apples, tomatoes or
whatever."

"When they come back with their red marbles, and they always do,
he decides he doesn't like red after all and he sends them home
with a bag of produce for a green marble or an orange one,
perhaps."

I left the stand, smiling to myself, impressed with the man. A
short time later I moved to Utah but I never forgot the story of
this man, the boys and their bartering.

Several years went by each more rapid than the previous one. Just
recently I had occasion to visit some old friends in that Idaho
community and while I was there learned that Mr. Miller had died.
They were having his viewing that evening and knowing my friends
wanted to go, I agreed to accompany them. Upon our arrival at the
mortuary we fell into line to meet the relatives of the deceased
and to offer whatever words of comfort we could.

Ahead of us in line were three young men. One was in an army
uniform and the other two wore nice haircuts, dark suits and white
shirts...very professional looking. They approached Mrs. Miller,
standing smiling and composed, by her husband's casket. Each of
the young men hugged her, kissed her on the cheek, spoke briefly
with her and moved on to the casket. Her misty light blue eyes
followed them as, one by one, each young man stopped briefly and
placed his own warm hand over the cold pale hand in the casket.
Each left the mortuary, awkwardly, wiping his eyes. Our turn came
to meet Mrs. Miller.

I told her who I was and mentioned the story she had told me about
the marbles. Eyes glistening she took my hand and led me to the
casket. "Those three young men, that just left, were the boys I
told you about. They just told me how they appreciated the things
Jim "traded" them. Now, at last, when Jim could not change his
mind about color or size...they came to pay their debt.

"We've never had a great deal of wealth of this world," she
confided, but, right now, Jim would consider himself the richest
man in Idaho."

With loving gentleness she lifted the lifeless fingers of her
deceased husband. Resting underneath were three, magnificently
shiny, red marbles.

We will not be remembered by our words, but by our kind deeds.

Author Unknown


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